Letting Go Can Mean Being Alone

Sometimes when you let go of a  relationship you might end up being alone. When you walk away from a relationship, especially if you’ve been in a long-term one you are not ready or you just don’t want someone else in your life at the moment, you’re left alone. That’s one of the main reasons people stay in relationships that are not good for them, because they don’t want to be alone. We tend to put up with so many different things during a relationship, because we don’t want to deal with the aftermath of loneliness. Being alone after any break-up can be hard, but you have peace and time to get to know who you are.

Being alone can sometimes be the best thing that could happen to you. It gives you the time to work on yourself and not put all your energy into someone else. In relationships we sometimes worry and have more concerns about the other person more than we do for ourselves. When the time comes for you to let that person go, don’t let the fear of being alone keep you from ending something that is not good for you. Why stay in a relationship when it’s not right and you’re unhappy to avoid being by yourself. You have to always remember your happiness should always comes first and if you have to pay a small price of being by yourself for a while that’s okay.

As a matter of fact when you walk away from any relationship, you should be by yourself for a while. You need that down time from being with someone and you also need to analyze your previous relationship to see what really happen and how much did you play a part in the relationship not working out. This will help you to not make the same mistakes in your next relationship. Jumping from relationship to relationship is not good for anyone. When you let go of a relationship, stop and be alone and spend some time on just you. Get to know you and what you really want in a relationship, take the alone time to soul search and make some decisions about your life.

The thing about letting go of a relationship that can lead to you being alone is you are thinking about you and your life. Yes we all want someone in our life, but we also sometimes give up so much of our life when we are with someone, especially if the person is not right and you have been trying to make it work. Turn that loneliness into something positive…spend more time with family and friends, work on your career, go back to school or take up a hobby of something you always wanted to do, but didn’t have time to do before. In other words, don’t let being alone be a negative in your life, because you had to let someone go. Let it become a turning point in your life where you are taking your life to the next level.

So…my question is why do we stay in a situation just to avoid being alone?

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